Have you come to Thailand to find a young, super-fit, super-model looking wife?
Well you have come to the right place.
You see some of the oddest matches in the world in Thailand.
Majority being old men with young girls.
Is there something for both party to gain?
For the man, yes, for the girl it is the Big Trade Off.
Would she rather have someone her own age, speaks her own language, fit and lovely?
Of course she would.
Love in Thailand seems to work counter to the rest of the universe.
There is nothing like the first love and many Thai women hold on that as long as they can with dire consequences.
When it finally fails, it becomes all about The Big Trade-Off.
The Big Trade-Off is accepting a man old enough to be your grandfather, to get your financial needs and wants met.
In RARE circumstances, the 2 people actually like each other and spending time together.
However, be advised many, many foreigners end up getting divorced. Many were already divorced in their home countries.
Just because financial needs are initially met, is no guarantee of anything.
Thai women care about their families #1.
How the foreigner handles that can be a real deal breaker.
If the foreigner is mean and nasty, deceitful and a slave driver.
If the foreigner is a cheap Charlie.
Perhaps being too fat, poor hygiene, you name it.
Just because financial needs are initially met, do NOT be surprised if her emotional needs are not being met, that she will take off in a heartbeat.
If you cannot appreciate the sacrifices young Thai women make for their families welfare and their own welfare, you really have no business being with a Thai woman.
If you can accept the Trade Offs, the same as her, you may do well and have a future together.