Everyone in Thailand has their owns reasons for what they do.
I have never, ever looked down on anyone, not matter what it was they were doing.
You are free to plot your own course and lifestyle in Thailand.
If you cannot let people be themselves, you have no place living in Thailand.
Please leave your tourists dollars and hit the road.
Acceptance is a big part of Thailand and if you cannot be accepting of ALL lifestyles, you do not belong here.
Unless you know someone in intimate detail, you have NO right to judge them, period!
For those that are not mindless Youtubers thinking they can live the rest of their lives in Thailand on US $700/month, here is a newsflash.
For many Thai people, money is extremely difficult to come by.
Try selling food out on the street when it is 40c+ for 300 thb a day, or maybe less.
Thai people have to resort to choices to make money and if you cannot agree with those choices, hit the road.
Many young women end up in Go-Go bars and walking the streets.
Some were conned with the promise of a job, others are dedicated to supporting their parents no matter what. Everyone has a reason for what they do.
During my early years in Thailand, I probably dated 25 different girls, some from the bar, some from the street, some from professional jobs.
They all had a reason for what they were doing.
I never looked down on anyone. Going into everyday thinking the same thing?
Could this be the one?
There are some lovely girls out there, but getting past the sexy, good looks, everyone has a reason.
I would find girls, either in the bar or street and ask them to take the night off and go to a club, go to eat, or anything else normal people do.
Sure, some just want money. No denying that.
However, you may find, everyone has their reason for being out there and maybe that is not their choice, but a necessity.
Many people have no opportunity to make enough money to support themselves or others, so they find a way.
Sure some get caught up in that life and can never go back, others hope and pray they find someone to take them away from all that.
At an earlier point in my life, I would find someone from their looks and talking to them, to see if they might be someone to develop a real relationship with.
It never mattered to me what they were doing, because I understand everyone has a reason and I never questioned it.
I think any man with half a brain can tell right away on a date if there is any hope or not?
Some will be hopeless into that lifestyle, just to get the next bit of money to blow.
However, during my time, I met several wonderful girls and I honestly could have married any of them if that was my destiny.
Everyone has a reason for what they do and sometimes, that could conflict the relationship to the point of it being over.
Looking back, I can see what happened and realize why. It is part of life, even when we try our best.
In Thailand you cannot expect a woman to be the perfect mold of your thinking.
Some women want to learn and be the best, others you can never change.
It is a situation of the man maybe having money and coming from a different social status than the woman.
She will be subjected to many things that maybe she had never been exposed and may or may not know how to handle it?
Things such as how to dress like a lady, having dinner manners, being able to hold her conversations in a manner to fit the social scene.
You have to determine what is exactly you are looking for in a lady and whether she is interested in going along?
Is she willing to learn these things to fit in with you or is it a lost cause?
Many girls only want/need an opportunity to prove themselves.
So whether walking the streets or from a bar, she may turn out to be the one if given the opportunity!
Everyone has a reason for what they do, that does not make them a bad person.
And You?
Don’t think of yourself as an angel and everyone else is bad.
