Thailand is a unique place where any 2 people, regardless of differences can get along.
People wonder how a 20 something year old Thai girl would settle for a 70 year old foreigner?
Simple, they are getting their personal needs met and they can get along.
The key to longevity is to get along with the person you are with.
Now, the challenge is to pick the one you CAN get along with.
Lots of genders in Thailand, any two people can get along, whether LGBQT, foreign nationalities, looks mismatch, fitness mismatches.
If there is a mismatch, it all happens in Thailand.
2 people will always do what they is best for them.
Accept that is part of Thailand.
Find your own 2. Make your own special life.