Thailand is not the “Needle in the Haystack” type of country when it comes to finding girlfriends or wives.
There are single women everywhere.
If you really want to find the best for you, it is helpful to know a few things.
Girls that are educated are different than those that are not. Highly educated girls may expect a younger, good looking man with money. (High maintenance).
City girls and country girls are different. Country girls seem to be more thankful and city girls are hard to please because they want too much.
Girls working in tourist areas are more prone to interact with foreigners. Unfortunately, some of these girls may have already had relationships with foreigners that did not work out and carry that bad relationship baggage with them.
Bar girls, each has their own story why they are there. Does not mean they are all bad. Some are there for forced reasons we cannot really fathom.
Professionals, those with college educations working in professional jobs, may be less inclined to a serious dating mismatch like age, looks, financial status, fitness. They can financially take care of themselves.
Isaan girls, farm girls, simple educated girls from the north. (Often you find many Isaan ladies that have been married to foreigners a long time). Hard working and thankful.
I heard a foreigner remark one time, that you will find a girl you like better, every time you turn a corner.
That being said, Thailand is a large country.
There are tons of places most foreigners never even get to and in those places, there are some real beauties. This is an important issue because you may seem settled on a girl in your area and when you start traveling, you may find someone you like even better. I guess the motto would be don’t settle so early with the first one.
The odds of them finding a foreigner are quite slim due to their location but they are out there. Lots of Isaan girls have never traveled or been anywhere so it can be a great experience to share Thailand with her.
Speaking Thai or some Thai can really be an ice breaker and the only way that girl you are staring at can tell you she is interested. Most girls are friendly and approachable.
Now this column is predicated on you, as a man, being a good man. It is a fact that all expat men are not good and probably many more bad that good.
The divorce rate with expats and Thai women inside Thailand is quite high. Now if you believe all the gospel on social media, it is always the girls fault and many Youtubers and social media people bash Thai girls for this reason.
I can assure you that is not the case. First off, you get to choose from millions of women in Thailand. If you did not learn about her expectations and needs before you got married, and wanted to marry right away for her slim, hot body, well gents, that is your own fault.
There is a pathetic Youtuber “Thai Talk With Dan” got married and had a kid. Years later his wife left him as he had no job and no money for the family. So he starts a Youtube channel and does nothing but bash his ex-wife and read stories from others that all had their relationships go south. A whole channel of complete losers where not one man ever admits it was his fault. In this case he got what he deserved. If you cannot afford a family, don’t start one because she is going to have expectations from you.
You cannot honestly think these marriages are all based on true love? There are trade-offs and expectations on both sides. You are a man, if you think you will get 100% your way, the number of divorces will prove that thought to be false.
Often foreign men have been divorced multiple time in their own country and I am not here to point out who was at fault. But I am pretty sure that anyone that has ever spent any time on Thailand Expats FB groups or social media, understands that all foreign men are not good.
However, if you are interesting in finding a girl to settle down with, and you are a good man, it is good to know some of these things.
Be smart, spend lots of time together in a setting similar to what married life will be like. Take your time, understand her and your expectations.