How do you find the right partner in Thailand?
My first opinion is if you made it all the way to Thailand on your own, you should already be smart enough to understand relationships.
That being said, there are a few tips everyone can learn from.
Apples and oranges don’t mix.
If you are an apple find an apple.
Each party in a relationship has certain needs.
When 2 people can meet each other’s needs completely, they will be a good match!
Many expats come to Thailand seeking the young, fit, Thai beauty.
However, they never understand the girls needs or whether they can be met or not.
If her needs are not met, watch out when the relationship crashes.
You need to understand every possible thing about this woman so there are no surprises.
Beyond her looks, can you understand what she is looking for to keep her happy year in and year out?
Can you and are you willing to meet her expectations?
If you refuse to understand and accept her expectations, the relationship will be short lasting.
And vengeance can be financially painful.
Some woman will except old age, ragged looks, unhealthy expats if they can better themselves and their expectations are met.
But there is a cost for that to you and that is keeping her happy.
Many expats have been married more than 20 years and understand the goal is meeting each other’s expectations.
If you think otherwise, get ready to tell your sob story.